All this Melanin – Flawless 81

“I can do all things through Jesus Christ who strengthens me”

Look at all this melanin. Beautiful under the sun, beautiful during the sunset, beautiful at night.

I’m becoming more comfortable in my skin, in my body, in my spirit. And that is one of the most beautiful things of all.

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Felt like channeling my inner 90’s girl… or maybe it’s the 80s.. ūüôā

I’ve never taken pictures in the evening, or even at night,¬†so I just went out one night and just decided to. I love how I caught the sunset in the back!

  • Baseball Shirt: GoJane.com
  • Jeans: Ross
  • Magazine Print Boots: GoJane.com
  • Jewelry: Charlotte Russe

God Bless

Tomi xx

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Where are Friendships Going These Days

Something has been on my mind for a few days and I’m very sure by the title you may already know what it is. Where are our friendships going these days? We claim to be friends to our faces, but anyone else would think we were the worst of enemies. But anyways before I jump the gun. Let’s start with the basics

What is a Friend?

  • If you were to take your definition from the Merriam-Webster Dictionary, it says ¬†“a friend is one attached to another by affection¬†or esteem or a favored companion”.
  • In my own point of view
    a friend is someone who you can confide in, you find comfort in them and their presence.

What is Friendship?

  • The dictionary has a very boring meaning, so I’m just gonna¬†to skip that.
  • From me, a friendship is a mutual relationship between two or more parties (people), looking out for one another, caring for each other, having each other’s backs.

So, now you’re probably thinking, where is Tomi¬†going with all of this?

Well, people have forgotten the meaning of being a friend and the essence of friendship, and that’s just it, plain and simple. People have let status, material wealth and(in its own way) social media get in the way of friendships.

One of the major things I don’t understand is, let’s say you have a friend, right? Are we on the same page? You have a friend (preferably a close one). And your friend happens to do something or behave in a certain way that irks you. Let’s say he/she….. Okay I can’t think of anything right now, but let’s assume it’s really bad. You’re very upset. The right thing to do would be to¬†confront your friend and talk to them about what hurt you and how it hurt you and resolve issues as the mature and humble human beings that you are, but instead you go on twitter and tweet something like “Humans can’t be trusted” “They’ll claim to be your friend but then you see what they’re doing behind you” “Don’t lie to me” “Friends don’t do that to each other” “These hoes ain’t loyal”¬†. And you go on this subbing spree, knowing fully well how angry you are at your termed “friend”, but when you happen to see this friend again, you’re all bubbly like nothing happened. You talk about the subs, and lie that it’s another person you’re talking about., and then you go back on twitter and you’re like “Learning not to trust people these days” and on top of that you’re saying horrible things behind his/her back. WHAT THE HELL ARE YOU DOING??

Or let’s say you plot something evil and wicked against your, once again, termed “friend” to hurt them emotionally to a point of possibly no return, and you call yourself a “Friend?” And you think people want to be your “friend” after that knowing the kind of person you are? WHAT THE HELL DO YOU THINK YOU’RE DOING??

We use the term “friend” so casually these days that we are forgetting what being a “friend” actually means.

Which leads me to ask, Where are friendships going these days? We find out that people are friends for material purposes, status, some are even there to pull you down and other stupid things. We need to reevaluate ourselves. Why are we really friends with some people?

So answer me this.

Where is your friendship going today?

friends

Lots of Love.

Tomi

xx.

The Glory Series : Green Glory

Hey Guys! Welcome back to my blog BeautifulEntity.com

I’m starting a new segment in my blog called The Glory Series that should run from now to the end of the year. And basically¬†the posts will be centered around pieces of clothing that I’ve actually made myself. Today’s Post is centered around a Green Ankara Skirt that I made.

Introducing

THE GLORY SERIES: GREEN GLORY

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A Day Out on the Town – Job Hunt (OOTD)

“Now faith is the assurance of things hoped for, the conviction of things not seen.” Hebrews 11:1

Hey Beautifuls!! I know, I know!! I am so very sorry! Two weeks without a post, but I’ve just been lazy to be honest. I so dislike editing! And my mac is acting up so I cant watch all the editing videos to help me out. But no excuses, the Lord is my strength and shall be for the posts to come.

I will be putting out a few more posts in the days to come, I’ve been working really hard to make up for my absence, so I hope you enjoy them!

Alright. Now to get into today’s topic.

I’ve been on a very rigorous job search since the summer started, to no avail for the most part. But I have faith the Lord will give me the one that is right for me. (The reason why I started off with today’s particular bible verse.)

But finally, I got my second interview for this semester! Might I say I didn’t get the job. But one disappointment is just a door opening for even better oppurtunities. So this is what I wore for my interview, Enjoy!

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  • Blazer: Macy’s
  • Cross Leggings: Rue21
  • Shirt: Just a regular Black V-neck Shirt
  • Jewelry: Dollar Jewelry Store
  • Heels: Chinese Laundry (Couldn’t find the shoe’s name ūüė¶ )
  • Bag: Charlotte Russe (Sold Out)

That was a terribly hot day, from what I remember. Ugh!! And the hot wind was all over the place! And my sister was rushing me to get back inside. Oh well.

But there we have it! Interview OOTD. God bless you!

The Sun Still Shines on a Rainy Day (OOTD)

Do not sorrow, for the Joy of the Lord is your strength” Nehemiah 8:10

Hey Beautifuls!! Welcome to my blog!!!!! This is my first official post! Yippee! So I know I’ve had this blog since Early May, and I never posted anything out of laziness, but hey!! Here I am!

So lets get into it, Shall we?

I’ve been changing some things in my life and one of the things I’m trying to incorporate into my lifestyle, is trying to look your best or at least presentable at all times, unless of course it is absolutely inevitable (exams). So I put together this little outfit the other day. (Heading to pay for classes and then to the mall)

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So I know I might have spoilt the look with the sneakers, But I was going for formal but casual at the same time (Don’t judge me lol), But lets say I was going for a fully formal look, I added these babies to it.

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Here’s my completely formal look

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I was feeling my model moment above hehe ūüôā

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  • Top: Chiffon Blouse from Rue 21
  • Skirt: BCX at Macy’s
  • Jewelry: Forever 21, and a dollar store
  • Boat Shoes: Rock & Candy Boatie Boat shoes (DSW) here
  • Heels: Rachel Roy ¬†Kalyssa ¬†similar¬†here¬†or here¬†( I think my version is only available in stores.)

Thanks to the little sis for the great photos.

There we have it, my outfit of the day. Have a nice day! And God bless you!